Using Your Fleshlight
The fleshlight takes some preparation to get the most out of it. The first thing you need to do is heat it up. I find the best way to do this is to fill up the sink with hot water and let it soak for 15 minutes or so. What I usually do is fill up the sink with hot water, throw in the insert that I am going to be using and let it soak for ten minutes. Then I empty out the sink, refill it with fresh hot water and let it soak for another five or ten minutes. This works great. When you first slip your cock into a fleshlight fresh from hot water you will think you have died and gone to heaven.
Do not put your Fleshlight in the microwave or boiling water as you will destroy the insert.
You can of course use the Fleshlight without heating it up first, but it doesn’t feel nearly as good. I highly recommend heating it before use.
After your fleshlight is nice and warm you are going to need to lube it up. Each insert requires varying degrees of lube and sometimes you will need to add lube as you go. You will quickly learn how much lube is required for each individual insert. I find it’s best to start out with a little and slowly add more as needed. Too much lube can lessen the sensation, so doing it this way avoids that.
Once the Fleshlight is warmed and lubed you are ready to use it. The end of the Fleshlight has a little cap that screws on and off. This is a key component to the Fleshlight. By tightening or loosening the end cap you can control how much suction you generate as you fuck your Fleshlight. I find that some of the inserts work better with more suction than others. With some of the inserts I find that I enjoy them best with the end cap completely removed. I also find that the amount of suction that I use depends on what method I am using while using the fleshlight. I am going to describe different methods next.
There are many different ways to use the fleshlight. You can simply lie in bed or sit in a chair and use the Fleshlight with your hands like in traditional masturbation. There are also many creative ways to use it. You can place the Fleshlight between your mattress and box spring or between the cushions on your couch and give it a nice fucking. This is one of my favorite methods. I like not having to use my hands; for me it really adds to the experience. People have come up with some very clever ways to fuck their fleshlights. I have seen videos of guys who have strapped them to those large inflatable work out balls. A very popular method is to place the Fleshlight into a shoe which holds it at an angle and makes for a very fun ride. You can place the fleshlight on a horizontal surface, like the top of your desk or counter top, and stand and fuck it. You get the idea. Get creative and have fun!
You can also remove the insert from the fleshlight case and use it like that. One nice thing about this is you can make the insert as tight as you’d like. With the insert out of the case you can also use it from the back, the end opposite the orifice, which if you are using a textured insert means you get to the texture right away. This can be a lot of fun.
After you finish using your Fleshlight you will need to clean it. See my “Caring for your Fleshlight” page for details.
The fleshlight takes some preparation to get the most out of it. The first thing you need to do is heat it up. I find the best way to do this is to fill up the sink with hot water and let it soak for 15 minutes or so. What I usually do is fill up the sink with hot water, throw in the insert that I am going to be using and let it soak for ten minutes. Then I empty out the sink, refill it with fresh hot water and let it soak for another five or ten minutes. This works great. When you first slip your cock into a fleshlight fresh from hot water you will think you have died and gone to heaven.
Do not put your Fleshlight in the microwave or boiling water as you will destroy the insert.
You can of course use the Fleshlight without heating it up first, but it doesn’t feel nearly as good. I highly recommend heating it before use.
After your fleshlight is nice and warm you are going to need to lube it up. Each insert requires varying degrees of lube and sometimes you will need to add lube as you go. You will quickly learn how much lube is required for each individual insert. I find it’s best to start out with a little and slowly add more as needed. Too much lube can lessen the sensation, so doing it this way avoids that.
Once the Fleshlight is warmed and lubed you are ready to use it. The end of the Fleshlight has a little cap that screws on and off. This is a key component to the Fleshlight. By tightening or loosening the end cap you can control how much suction you generate as you fuck your Fleshlight. I find that some of the inserts work better with more suction than others. With some of the inserts I find that I enjoy them best with the end cap completely removed. I also find that the amount of suction that I use depends on what method I am using while using the fleshlight. I am going to describe different methods next.
There are many different ways to use the fleshlight. You can simply lie in bed or sit in a chair and use the Fleshlight with your hands like in traditional masturbation. There are also many creative ways to use it. You can place the Fleshlight between your mattress and box spring or between the cushions on your couch and give it a nice fucking. This is one of my favorite methods. I like not having to use my hands; for me it really adds to the experience. People have come up with some very clever ways to fuck their fleshlights. I have seen videos of guys who have strapped them to those large inflatable work out balls. A very popular method is to place the Fleshlight into a shoe which holds it at an angle and makes for a very fun ride. You can place the fleshlight on a horizontal surface, like the top of your desk or counter top, and stand and fuck it. You get the idea. Get creative and have fun!
You can also remove the insert from the fleshlight case and use it like that. One nice thing about this is you can make the insert as tight as you’d like. With the insert out of the case you can also use it from the back, the end opposite the orifice, which if you are using a textured insert means you get to the texture right away. This can be a lot of fun.
After you finish using your Fleshlight you will need to clean it. See my “Caring for your Fleshlight” page for details.
